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After a slew of racist and generally offensive comments I told this guy IMing me on OkCupid to fuck himself. What came back was: 

 

jjt9210:and your a fat fuckin cunt

jjt9210:go eat yourself to death

jjt9210:you only wish you can be skinny

jjt9210:go fuck a nigger, spic, or some jew while your at it since im such a fuckin turnoff you mother fucker

Now, this dude is obviously not a shining example of a gracious human being, but what really struck me as interesting was him going straight for the fat thing. I’m just going to go ahead and assume that this guy isn’t walking around advocating for Fat Acceptance, and that he intended “fat” to be a derogatory comment on my appearance, so if I’m such a “fat fuckin cunt”, why message me in the first place? Isn’t this an insult that speaks more to his taste than my appearance? The real question here, jjt9210, is why you feel the urge to send unsolicited messages to girls you find so unattractive. 

This same issue also came up a little earlier in the conversation: 

 

jjt9210:cant say for sure but you look jewish??\

me:nope

me:my family is catholic

jjt9210:k

jjt9210:i dont like jews btw so im glad your not one

me:wow

If his “i dont like jews btw” statement is factually correct and not just trolling, why message a girl who “look[s] jewish”? Clearly jjt9210 is conflicted about what he actually wants. Dr. Agirlacity recommends lots of therapy or maybe a good old fashioned tar and feathering? Is being drawn and quartered still a thing? If so, that.  

(side note: I would normally NEVER include someone’s user name when posting a private conversation, but I believe if someone is truly heinous they deserve to be recognized as such)